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Lindsey Hall's avatar

This is also lovely. I'm always trying to understand what makes partnership work for people. Thanks for the insight, loved this:

"Every day, we choose to be together, we choose to love each other, and we choose to be each others’ home. We have to actively choose to love every iteration of ourselves and each other, in the ways we’ve grown together and — arguably more importantly — in the ways we’ve grown apart."

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Thalia Toha's avatar

Jess- Congrats on the wedding anniversary. I appreciate this reflection, especially with the move back to Boulder. Weather is pretty drastic recently from 80s suddenly to 30s.

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My Personal Horror Show's avatar

Great love story. And your footnotes are fantastic.

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Irena Smith's avatar

Happy anniversary, you crazy kids! I loved reading this. Smart, funny, poignant, honest. Wishing you many more years of wedded bliss, complete with (loving) squabbling and inside jokes and awesome adventures.

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